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Well, I’m in tears. As the owner of a wonderfully complicated creature named Sergio, whose care has seemed, at times, just too much to cope with, I have contemplated many of the thoughts you share here. At the moment, I’m sitting on the couch beside him during a rainstorm trying to keep him calm. It’s fair to say that I’m HIS emotional support animal, not the other way around. Lots to ponder here; sending love to you, as always…

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Warm thanks and love back to you too, as always! And love to Sergio too. xx

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Dear Amy,

Your twelve pieces have deeply moved me, not just because my wife and I are 'dog people' and saw our Labrador enjoy life to be almost fifteen years. Your extensive thoughts on loyalty are deep and moving too. I have one small observation to make. Why do we humans have this constant tendency to see the world in opposites? Loyal - disloyal etc. I can't help thinking this way we miss out on a vast and infinitely complicated broader picture.

Thank you for sharing these intimate experiences with us!

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Hartelijk bedankt, Peter - for reading and for your kind comments and insights. I am glad you shared life with your Labrador, finding your own love and loyalty. Re. opposites - I understand completely your point - and can only think that it is the movement between them and blurring of those binaries that help us find all that that is missing 'in between' - the broader picture, as you rightly say. Again, thanks so much for responding to the piece - it was a tough one to write. All good wishes, Amy

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Beautiful video - a lovely tribute from you to Gladys. I think you would appreciate a film I've just watched called 'Rex', also known as 'Megan Leavey'. It encapsulates what you've been writing about here. I hope you will keep sharing your dog-insights with other dogs and their companions, as another kind of loyalty to Gladys. Not everyone is in the right situation to 'own' a dog, but it's surely a special gift to really understand one.

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Many thanks, Caroline. Your comments are kind, generous, and helpful. Warmly appreciated as it was a difficult task. I had not heard of Rex / Megan Leavey - so will do a search. Best, Amy xx

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